San Antonio Friends Meeting Newsletter

Fifth month, 2005


Body, Mind and Spirit

Jeff Sapp, Spring 2005, Teaching Tolerance

"’While there are plenty of schools that promote being smart as the pinnacle, Olney Friends School believes in a deep commitment to goodness as well as intelligence,’ says Sidwell, the head of school at Olney. ‘The curriculum is built around the premise of 'God in everyone.'

The idea of ‘God in everyone’ is a root belief for the Society of Friends, also known as Quakers. It informs all that is done at the school in Barnesville, Ohio.

At Olney and beyond — in religious and nonreligious private schools, as well as public schools across the country — this philosophy is known as holistic education. Holistic education asserts that everything is connected; everything is in relationship.

Holistic educators, in the words of Parker J. Palmer, ‘must commit to being authentic adults ... whose lives are built around caring for new lives.’ Palmer has come to be a leading voice about spirituality and education.

One need not venture very far into the school to find this commitment to goodness, intelligence and relationship at Olney.

Meet Musa, a 17-year-old senior from the West Bank who has been at Olney for three years. His parents are in Palestine, and Musa hasn't been able to visit them; Olney has become his family. Musa grew up taking religion classes in Islamic fundamentalism; not surprisingly, Olney has been a life-changing experience for him. ‘I've taken the women's studies class, and now I even know the difference between 'gender' and 'sex,'’ he says proudly. Musa has a quick answer for what he most prizes at Olney: ‘Open-mindedness. . .’

‘At any time,’ Sidwell explains, ‘a classroom or faculty meeting may turn into a 'tuning session' where we pause and look for unity.’ Such introspection helps define curricula for teachers and students alike at Olney . . .

Melissa Poole, teacher and dean of students at Olney, said concepts of self and identity are at the heart of the 9th-grade humanities curriculum: What is identity? How is our identity shaped? Who or what impacts it? What is our individual personal responsibility in our own identity's formation and growth?

Such questions become vital considering 20 percent of the students at Olney Friends School are from different countries. Students speak different languages, are of different races and ethnicities, come from different socioeconomic classes, are shaped by different faiths and have different learning abilities. . .

Students are multifaceted, a combination of strengths and weaknesses. Olney students put on several musical plays throughout the year, for example, and students participate regardless of musical abilities. Conant described one student who had a prominent solo and sang ‘terribly and happily’ as a full participant. When finished, there was a burst of applause and acclaim because the student had successfully tried something difficult. At Olney, it's OK to be off-key.

Sam, 15, is an openly gay student from Columbus, Ohio, who plans to spend an academic year abroad in Costa Rica. He says he cherishes Olney's supportive and nurturing environment.

When asked what lessons he hopes to take with him when he leaves Olney, Sam describes a teacher who took time every day at lunch to have a glass of orange juice with him, a special time beyond any classroom project or lesson, one of Sidwell's ‘tuning session’ moments. ‘Relationships are what I'll take with me,’ Sam says. ‘An appreciation of community.’

Jeff Sapp is a curriculum specialist and writer for Teaching Tolerance. He points out that private schools are not the sole province of holistic education. Plenty of public school educators consider themselves holistic educators, too.

Two decades ago we had a Colombian graduate student whose father had enrolled him in an English-language high school. This gave him the opportunity to work, as a college student, hosting groups of North American student tours. Most, he said, scathingly, took the view that “we were little brown people who needed help running our country.” There was one group, he said, from a Quaker school, who came wanting to learn. He had no idea I was a Quaker. And PBS’s NOVA program recently described a woman physics professor at Rice, Naomi Halas. Speaking of barriers to women, she said she had attended Bryn Mawr College, which was friendly to women. Bryn Mawr has strong Quaker connections. So some people are doing things right. If you want to know more about Olney School, ask Dmitri.


Errata

We regret propagating an egregious error in last month’s newsletter regarding the granting of an award to Marian Carter. The item should not have referred to the Luupi Award of the Darft Foundation. This should have read the Daft Award of the Loopy Foundation, though this would not have been true anyway. In addition, it has been questioned whether there is any such placename as “Washington” in Canada. While we appreciate the reasoning behind this, we must report that this information is at least as reliable as the rest of the information in this item. We apologize to Marryin Courter. The misreporting resulted from an excess of April tomfoolerism for which the responsible staff member has been reprimanded by the editor, causing sleepless nights.


April Business Meeting

Gary Whiting, reported that the M&O committee had warmly recommended acceptance of Julia Eyer into membership. As is customary, this will be reconsidered next month. A series of book discussions will be held on the second Sunday of each month at 9:00 AM in the Meetinghouse. The first text will be Quaker by Convincement, by G. Hubbard.

Jen Moran’s request that Meeting permit her father, who has bought the property to the east of the meetinghouse, to connect to the sewer line which runs along the eastern boundary was approved.

Janet Southwood presented the report of Outreach, noting the visits of Julie Harlow of Friends House Moscow, Adrien Niyongabo of Friends Peace Teams in Burundi, and the Friends Peace Teams Coordinating Committee. FPT runs AVP workshops there and would welcome donations. We have heard from Earlham School of Religion asking if they may use our mailing list, from advocates of the Peace Tax Fund, and an Express-News reporter wanting to write an article about the Meeting. We are seeking more information.

Denise Wilkinson is arranging for a change of website with Colby Glass, who has generously offered to pay any expenses. The name will be something like quakers-sanantonio.org.

A request from the Re-formed Congregation of the Goddess for the use of another room for their daughters was approved. We need to prepare a statement of conditions for use of the meetinghouse. This matter was referred to M&O.

Ken Southwood gave the Meetinghouse Development Committee’s report. A contract has been signed with Breda Construction at a cost of $265,078. Extra costs will be incurred for architect’s and engineer’s inspections and for change orders. Meeting approved that four change orders, totaling approximately $4,380 be sent to the corporation meeting for approval on May 1. The installation of a sunscreen at the east end and metal-wrapped ducts instead of fiberglass were not recommended. A number of other items were deferred, for consideration when the meetingroom is complete. An outlay of about $160 for bathroom fixtures was approved.

The building is expected to be completed by mid-August. Should this not happen, the builder will not receive the 10% of costs which have been retained until completion. Meeting approved that the corporation be asked to agree that construction items costing $5,000 or less may be approved by Business Meeting without recourse to the corporation. The purchase of builder’s liability insurance during the construction phase, at a cost not to exceed $1,500, was approved.

Craig Bejnar reported that, while expenses had exceeded contributions in March, the accounts for 2005 so far are balanced. An increase in Lucy’s hourly rate from $14 to $15.75 was warmly approved.

It was agreed that, to avoid delay, Janet Southwood would be added as a check signature in case Bill Wilkinson and Craig Bejnar were out of town when a large check became due.


Arizona Minutemen Driven Largely By Sense of Insecurity, Victimization

by Gabriel Thompson

“The vigilantes patrolling the Mexico-US border have received lots of attention, but a closer look reveals complex, often contradictory motives and a cynical, almost desperate worldview. . .

[The project is] . . . the fulfillment of a dream for Gilchrist, 56, a retired accountant and Vietnam War veteran from southern California. Last October he sent out what he now calls the ‘email heard round the world,’ asking for volunteers to come to Arizona and become ‘part of a blocking force against entry into the US by illegal aliens [in order to] protect our country from a 40-year-long invasion.’ . . . most simultaneously claimed victimization at the hands of undocumented immigrants.

Around the protesters, a handful of people wore red and white shirts denoting them as self-proclaimed legal observers. One of these volunteers was Caroline Isaacs, director of the Tucson office of the American Friends Service Committee (AFSC). She said the AFSC, in collaboration with the American Civil Liberties Union of Arizona, planned to monitor the activities of the Minutemen throughout the month-long operation. ‘We already know which roads they will be using, and so we will drive along the same roads until we find them, and set up ten to fifteen feet away,’ she said. ‘We’ll tell law enforcement anytime we see people’s civil rights being violated.’ “

Yet, do we not need to listen also to those feeling insecurity and victimization?


Bicycling Bill at SCYM

Before SCYM, it occurred to me that the countryside surrounding Greene Family Camp would make wonderful cycling, so I took my bike. The weather on Friday was perfect; so I set off to explore rolling hills in the wildflower season.

I was thinking about the calm of the country road, when I met three stampeding dogs. I was going uphill; there is something very motivational about unrestrained hounds chasing you. I pedaled through to a wonderful downhill 30 mph slope. My mind turned to how I could avoid those dogs coming back. My plan had been to cycle out and turn around, so as not to get lost. However, over the next five or six miles I met two more swarms of canines all chasing me uphill. I was getting winded and didn’t want to visit again with the thundering herds. I decided to find a back way into camp.

The open road turned into a tactical exercise, pedaling through the hills. Folks in pick-up trucks would pass me, reading the “Peace is Priceless” message on my back and looking curiously in their rearview mirrors. Over the next five miles, I could find no back entrance to the camp and had three more close uphill encounters of the canine kind. I found myself in the fringes of Bruceville.

I realized there was only one way, past the first set of bike-chasing dogs. As I got there I was surprised to find no dogs and I was able to glide into camp, one hour and 25 minutes after I started. For the rest of the weekend, the song “Who Let the Dogs Out?” played in my mind.

Bill Wilkinson


Don't Think of an Elephant!

Know Your Values and Frame the Debate, by George Lakoff

This book is an antidote to the last forty years of core conservative dominance of the national public policy debate. It explains how core conservatives think, and how to counter their arguments by talking in terms of values instead of programs. People tend to support policies which align with their values and identities, but which often run counter to their best interests. He outlines in detail the traditional American values that progressives hold, but are often unable to articulate. Lakoff also breaks down the ways in which hardline conservatives have framed the issues to focus our attention in ways that favor the objectives they are promoting, such as defining our response to 911 as a "war on terrorism" rather than a "crime scene investigation" as we had done with the Murrow Federal Office Building destruction and provides examples of how progressives can respectfully reframe issues. For example: In the first of his three debates with George W. Bush, 2004 presidential candidate John Kerry argued against the war in Iraq not by directly condemning it but by citing the various ways in which airport and commercial shipping security had been jeopardized due to the war's sizable price tag. In so doing, he re-framed the war issue to his advantage while avoiding discussing it in the global terrorism terms favored by President Bush.

Ginger and Jim Kenney

Ginger and Jim will present a 3 day seminar at Intermountain YM on Beyond War.


February 4 1916

If all to do their best would try,
Very few on straw would lie,
Fewer still of want would die;
Pans would all have fish to fry;
Pigs would fill the poor man’s sty;
Want would cease and need would fly;
Wives and children cease to cry;
Poor rates would not rise so high;
Things would not go much awry;
You’d be glad and so would I.

  • Frank Vodem
  • 12 Laura Street,
  • Plymouth

    From Dora Saunders’, Ken Southwood’s mother’s little “Autograph” book, when she was fifteen.


  • A Nomination Analogy

    Nominating John Bolton for the position of U.S. ambassador to the United Nations is like hiring a nanny after she tells you that she hates children.

  • Margret Hofmann, Austin Meeting
    This is Margret’s letter to the Austin-American.


    Beyond War in the Global Economy.

    Ginger and Jim Kenney led a forum. The principal point was that war between nations has now been largely replaced by economic competition between large corporations. War once served a similar end by eliminating less effective states. Among the richest organizations, including states, one half are corporations. Nations have decreased in power but non-governmental organizations have increased, making us all part of the solution.


    Coming Events

    On Sunday May 22nd, Haji Omar Shakir, Imam of of Masjid Bilal, and El-Hajji Asmar Townes will come to Meeting to speak of the experience of performing the Hajj, the pilgrimage to Mecca. Omar Shakir performed the pilgrimage this year, so the event is fresh in his mind and heart.

    Once again, on Friday May 13th, at 7 p.m., we shall have an evening of sharing, when Friends and friends bring their memories to share with the rest of us. Is there something you have read or written, or made, which you’d like to share? Family photos, funny stories, poems, pets? Well-remembered experiences? We have enjoyed the previous two evenings of sharing. Bring a dessert, too, to share.

    On Sunday, May 8th, at 9 am, we will start a series of discussions of the book Quaker By Convincement by Geoffrey Hubbard. The discussions will be held on the second Sunday of each month before meeting for worship. Geoffrey Hubbard was once a religious correspondent for the BBC in England. Speaking to the editor of a Pelican series on different religions, he asked whether they would do one on Quakerism and was told to go ahead. It is a friendly introduction to Quakerism with a particular emphasis on unprogramed meetings. We will start with the chapter on “God and Man.”


    Personal

    A note from Denise Wilkinson: “All is well, just a busy season - concerts, shows, National Honor Society inductions for both girls (Natl Junior HS for Joci), a library conference in Austin for me, the usual travel for Bill, etc. Pretty wild from here until the end of May, like every year. My mom's 70th is coming up on May 7, so my brothers are coming into town that weekend.”

    Congratulations are due!

    Ken Southwood met a young man, we’ll call him Job, who looked Asian and asked him, unsubtlely, where his parents came from. He was from Korea, adopted, and happy to talk about it. His older sister was from Vietnam and her adoption was accidental. At 12, her family in Vietnam were getting her out of Vietnam to Brazil. But she had the wrong papers. In the confusion she was put on another plane without examination of her papers. She arrived in America with no arrangements for anything, and walked out into the airport with no shoes, hungry, and having only what she stood up in. Job’s future parents saw her. He spoke a little Vietnamese, along with other languages and spoke to her. So, finding what her problem was, they took her home.

    Later, they managed, somehow, to get in touch with her family who agreed to her adoption. That’s how they started, later adopting two others, Job and a very much mixed sibling. Much later, the Vietnamese family got out and came here and now, said Ken’s new friend, they’re like one big family.

    More news from Janet and Ken. We seem to know their events better than those of others. They received an e-mail message from a Malay man who was an undergraduate in Illinois, one of a group to whom they were hosts. When they visited, a room would be prepared upstairs where they could pray at the appointed times. When he went back to Malaysia they lost touch. They tried to find him on a visit to Malaysia in 1994 but failed. He googled their names while in Amsterdam and found them in the AFSC-TAO newsletter.

    David Bristol plans to settle down and buy a house on Florida. Not in Florida. Julia Eyer has applied to join the Meeting. Her application was warmly approved by M&O but approval by Meeting is deferred for a month, just to make it look as if we are thinking it over. (It’s the usual procedure.) Charles Goebel is planning a trip to England to be at his niece’s wedding and to meet with an old friend. Vivian Rule and Gary Whiting have purchased tickets for the Quaker tour of Costa Rica from June 6th through the 17th, including a visit to Monte Verde Meeting n the mountains. This Conservative Meeting transplanted itself in the late forties from Georgia to Cost Rica, which has no army, to protect their young men from imprisonment for noncooperation with draft registration.

    Margaret Mayberry has been at the receiving end of chemo treatment for cancer. She has been told that tests now show her to be clear, to the joy of all of us. Now she’ll be able to come to the Bring and Share evening.


    A Native American Prayer for Peace

    O Great Spirit of our Ancestors... Give us the wisdom to teach our children to love, to respect, and to be kind to each other so that they may grow with peace in mind. Let us learn to share all the good things that you provide for us on this Earth.


    Silent Radio

    “Listeners tuning into a regular British radio show which broadcasts religious services will have an unexpected surprise this weekend -- a programme made up largely of silence. BBC Radio's "Sunday Worship" usually features Christian services, but will this week be broadcast from a meeting held by Quakers, also known as the Society of Friends, the Daily Telegraph newspaper reported Saturday.

    Quaker meetings are centred around a long period of quiet contemplation by the gathered participants -- usually lasting around an hour -- with no hymns, sermons, spoken prayers or priests. The BBC has previously had little to do with broadcasting Quaker meetings lest listeners believe their radios have broken down, the report said.”

    LONDON (AFP) Apr 22


    Chicago AFSC Infiltrated

    A Quaker peace organization has asked a federal court to order the Chicago Police Department to release all of its remaining records related to the department's covert infiltration of the group while it planned a November 2002 demonstration.

    In a press statement released Monday, the American Friends Service Committee (AFSC), along with the American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU), accused Chicago police of having "the most lax guidelines for investigation of lawful First Amendment activities of any law enforcement agency in the country."

    "Without any public discussion or notice, the City has abandoned the traditional requirement of a connection between even a threat of crime and the investigation of persons and organizations engaged in political speech and association," the statement read.

    The organizations pointed to a February 2004 internal Chicago Police Department audit that showed the department had placed undercover officers in small meetings in which AFSC members planned peaceful demonstrations during the 2002 Trans-Atlantic Business Dialogue (TABD) meeting held in Chicago. According to the ACLU, the audit suggested that police had "insufficient basis" for officers to attend the meetings organized by AFSC and other protest groups.

    When the ACLU and AFSC asked for files related to the police investigations, they were told the records had been destroyed. The petition filed Monday asks for, among other things, the sharing of all remaining records with the groups.

    --Dave Reynolds, © 2005 The NewStandard (http://newstandardnews.net), which asks that we display a short message encouraging our readers/visitors to support independent, nonprofit, anticommercial news.


    Two letters

    These are two letters received by Chuck Fager at Quaker House, Fayetteville,NC:

    “... In our 35 years of peace work, this was the most meaningful and best-organized event we have attended. We especially appreciated the support of the good-natured police, who provided security and proved themselves to be true keepers of the peace at Fayetteville’s largest ever peace gathering.”

  • Cynthia and Michael Orange, St. Paul, MN

    “YOU GUYS ARE IDIOTS AND SHOULD NOT BE UNDERMINING THE MILITARY. I SERVED 19.5 YEARS IN THE NAVY, INCLUDING VIETNAM. IF YOU SIGN UP FOR THE MILITARY YOU HAVE TO ACCEPT THE RESPONSIBILITY AND CONSEQUENCES OF YOUR ACTIONS. I HOPE THE DESERTERS GO TO PRISON FOR A LONG TIME AND YOU HELPED THAT TO HAPPEN. STAY OUT OF THE MILITARY. PEOPLE WHO RUN WHEN THEY ARE SENT TO FIGHT DO NOT DESERVE CONSIDERATION, THEY DESERVE ANY PUNISHMENT THE MILITARY CAN GIVE.”

  • KEN

    [Ed: That’s another Ken.]


    Moses Bailey of Hartford, writes:

    “The story is told that when New England Friends more than half a century ago used to hold their Yearly Meetings at Newport, Rhode Island, a smart cab driver at the Newport railway station overheard the eager greetings of the Friends as the came from the trains and, for sound business policy, went to them, shaking hands, saying, “How does thee do?” “I have a cab for thee.” His hack was soon filled with passengers whom he addressed altogether, “Where is thou’s baggage?”

  • From the Poley’s Friendly Anecdotes


    The War Memorial
    Thousands of boots on rows,
    To symbolize the worst,
    Families walking around looking for the unwanted,
    Looking for their son’s or daughter’s names in the bright green grass.
    In silence the parents wept while their child’s name was called out,
    The war protesters asking why this war was fought,
    And why these people had died.
    Many feelings were rushing in at one time,
    Sad and mad playing a big role, as well as filling up with mixed emotions,
    People were letting feeling flow out like water over the Niagara,
    The smell of the earth and the feel of the smooth laminated paper led to a more ultimate
    sadness, one that was beyond description. Why?
    Sebastian Whitworth, San Antonio Meeting


    Calender

    Meeting for Worship is held on Sunday at 10 a.m., followed by refreshments and a Forum discussion at 11.30, usually lasting until about 12.45. Children are invited to join worship for the first fifteen minutes, after which they may go to join with the Young Friends program. Child care is available during Forum.

    May 1 Sunday ....Potluck lunch. No Forum. Brief Corporation Meeting. May 8, Sunday....9 a.m., discussion of Quaker By Convincement Forum – to be decided by Peace and Social Concerns Committee. May 13, Friday .. Bring and Share evening, 7 pm at the Meetinghouse May 15, Sunday... Business meeting. May 19, Thursday.. Midweek meeting at the Drennons, 7 pm May 22, Sunday ... Haji Om ar Shakir and Al-Hajji Asmar Townes describe the Hajj pilgrimage. May 29, Sunday ... Forum – Worship Sharing on Advice and Query

    Each Thursday, at 4-5 pm, a silent peace vigil is held at the NE corner of Main Plaza (Commerce and Dwyer or Commerce and Soledad, which is the same thing) near the San Fernando cathedral.

    Clerk: Bill Wilkinson, e-mail: bdwilkinson@earthlink.net
    Newsletter Editor: Ken Southwood, e-mail: jksouthwood@grandecom.net
    Website: http://lonestar.texas.net/~colby/quakersa.htm.
    Donations may be made to Friends Meeting of San Antonio, P.O. Box 6127, San Antonio TX 78209.
    Meeting telephone to leave a message: (210) 945-8456.

    Friends Meeting of San Antonio,
    7052 N. Vandiver,
    PO Box 6127 San Antonio TX78209


    Last Updated 5/2/04.

    Colby Glass