Friends in San Antonio

7052 North Vandiver, San Antonio TX78209

July 2009


Calendar, July 2009

Meeting for Worship is held on Sunday at 10 a.m., followed by refreshments and a Forum discussion at 11.30, usually lasting until about 12.45. Children are invited to join worship for the first fifteen minutes, after which they may go to join with the Young Friends program. Child care is available during Forum.

              
 5 Sunday ..... Potluck lunch at 11.30.
12 Sunday...... Forum – The Future of Transportation: Will
	It Be Green? – Joe Redfield.
19 Sunday...... Meeting for Business.
26 Sunday ..... Forum – Possible Uses for our New Building.

Each Thursday, at 4-5 pm, a silent peace vigil is held at the corners of S. Flores and Commerce, one block west of Main Plaza near City Hall.

Clerk: Bill Wilkinson 210)561-9360 e-mail: billwilk3@att.net.

Newsletter Editor: Ken Southwood, (210)828-1513; e-mail: jksouthwood@grandecom.net

Website: http://www.sanantonioquakers.org

Donations may be made to Friends Meeting of San Antonio, P.O. Box 6127, San Antonio TX 78209. Meeting telephone for meeting times or to ask for other information: (210) 945-8456


San Antonio Friends Meeting Newsletter

Seventh Month, 2009


The Power of Forgiveness

David Niyonzima is superintendent of (pastoral) Burundi Yearly Meeting. In 1993, after the president of Burundi, a Hutu, was assassinated by Tutsi soldiers. He says, “According to the twisted logic of Burundi politics . . . Tutsi and Hutu have felt they must do everything possible to keep the other group from gaining further power and influence.”

Shortly after the assassination he was in Kwibuka teaching a mixed group of young Hutu and Tutsi men to become leaders in Friends churches. Suddenly a group of Tutsis, some soldiers, burst in and opened fire with automatic weapons. David fled and hid, with no time to do more. He received inspiration from Elijah who, under threat, fled to the desert. “But God Himself appeared and asked the question, ‘What are you doing here, Elijah?’” David says, “It was with relief and dread that I realized God was telling me to come out of my hiding place.”

Many of his students were killed. He and others buried the decomposing bodies. He avoided giving information about the dead and the killers to the authorities, fearing retaliation. But, “a new and amazing word came to me from the Lord . . . God told me to go the next step and actually forgive these enemies, as Jesus had taught. Forgive them? Yes. I was to go to these persons and tell them I forgave them? Yes. Would that be easy? If course not. Was God asking me to do this? Yes. He was.”

“While I was still arguing with myself about whether I could forgive the killers, I was in town and I encountered Filbert, one of the two local persons who had led the group to Kwibuka. Before I could talk myself out of speaking to this man, I found myself greeting him and reaching out and shaking his hand. To my great surprise, these words came out of my mouth, ‘By God’s power, I forgive you for your part in bringing the soldiers to kill our students at Kwibuka.’

Filbert looked as if I had struck him between the eyes. ‘What are you saying? You’re badly mistaken. I was not involved at all in that incident.’ If Jesus’s beloved follower Peter could not even admit that he was one of the disciples, how could I expect Filbert to admit he was the informer with the blood of my students on his hands?

‘I’m not here to argue with you, Filbert,’ I responded, ‘I’m telling you I know you were one of those in the group. But I’m not accusing you either. I’m forgiving you. Jesus has asked me to forgive those who have wronged me, and by His power I’m doing exactly that.’

My words had a dramatic effect on both of us. Filbert was completely overwhelmed and speechless, even though he could not bring himself to confess. I, in turn, was overwhelmed with joy and relief. I felt that a heavy load had been lifted from my back. I felt released. Peace spread through my body and spirit. Fear and anger gave way to boldness and love. It was like Saul in Damascus, when Ananias prayed for him. Scales fell from Saul’s eyes. He arose, was baptized, took food, and regained his strength. Scales fell from my eyes as well. I had only been able to see the evil in others, but my new eyes permitted me to see a person whom God loved and was willing to forgive. How could I not forgive someone who was freely being offered God’s grace and forgiveness?

That simple handshake and those few words of forgiveness became a turning point in my life, pulling me away from the spirit of revenge which has overwhelmed the people of Burundi, and turning me toward the spirit of forgiveness.”

David’s words and biblical inspirations are not those which would come to many of us. There are doctrinal matters which come between us and pastoral Friends. But we can recognize the spirit which led him and be inspired by his actions, while hoping and wondering if we could be led by the same spirit to the same courage and forgiveness in such a situation.

David’s words are drawn from chapter 1 of Unlocking Horns: Forgiveness and Reconciliation in Burundi, by David Niyonzima and Lon Fendall.



Personal News

We heard rumors that Jeff Hipp and his girlfriend, who visited here last year, had asked for a marriage clearness committee up there in Massachusetts. But we couldn’t say anything about it – suppose it was found unfit! Now Jeff has sent us his official announcement: Jeffrey (former attender of FMSA) and Jessica (who visited FMSA with Jeff last December) were found clear for marriage by Fresh Pond Friends Meeting of Cambridge, Massachusetts on Sunday, May 3. The wedding is scheduled for the morning of Saturday, October 10 at the Cambridge Meetinghouse, and will involve a parade along the Charles River. More information at www.hippbelt.com.

A parade . . . ! With High School bands? Academic regalia? Quaker clowns?

We love you, Jeff, and now Jessica. We’ll look forward to seeing you again.

We were able to ask Sharon a question while she was on her way up around the Norwegian coast: “How's the Arctic Circle? How many hours of light a day are you getting?” Her answer: “24 hours a day, but I don't see the sun because of the clouds. Current temperature is 48 degrees at 2:30 PM.”

Marian Carter’s son, John, is married. He sent this message, which Marian says is “classic John Carter:” “Good morning. Sorry for sending you this in an e-mail but figured I could get the word out to you faster this way. As you may or may not be aware, Joy Tull and John Carter tied the knot on December 31, 2008 and are now officially married. I know some of you never thought it would happen for me but I was lucky and found the most beautiful woman in the world to share my life with. We were married by a friend in a very private ceremony, actually just the two of us. Sorry to disappoint all of you who wanted to come to a wedding and give me a hard time.”

But now they are throwing a celebration. “ I will be grilling my famous barbeque chicken and other wonderful food and drink.” Marian was tempted by the chicken to go to Indiana.

How many of us other Quaker men found the most beautiful woman in the world to share our lives with? All of us?

Chelsea and Brandon have been having a hard time – Chelsea has been ill and has been laid off, Brandon’s mother is severely ill, and their house plumbing failed disastrously.

Jen says, “Hi F/friends. In a few hours, I'll be on my way to Rwanda. During a week in July, I'll be facilitating a writing workshop there for survivors of the 1994 Rwandan Tutsi Genocide and subsequent war. I'll also be volunteering with the non-governmental organization that is close to my heart, Help Life Rwanda.

I'll be writing about my experiences in my 'Fed by Curiosity' blog, http://jenosborne.wordpress.com/.

This new space includes my Twitter feed and some photos I've uploaded to Flickr. I invite you to visit and comment.”

If you would like to be in touch with her by e-mail, tell Ken. She will be gone for five weeks.

We have been concerned about Karen, Bill O’s wife. We’re happy that she will be out of hospital by the time you receive this. Her condition is improving.


Bric a Brac

“. . . a broad river of people in Teheran – young and old, dressed in traditional Islamic gowns and the latest Western fashions – marched slowly from Revolution Square to Freedom Square for more than three hours, many of them wearing the signature bright green ribbons of Mr. Moussavi’s campaign and holding up their hands in victory signs.

The silent march was a deliberate and striking contrast to the chaos of the past few days, when riot police officers sprayed tear gas and wielded clubs to disperse scattered bands of angry and frightened young people. When the occasional shout or chant went up, the crowd quickly hushed it, and some held up signs with the word silence.”

New York Times, June 16
Pastor Pagano, of New Bethel Church in Louisiana, invited his parishioners to bring their guns to church. “God and guns were part of the foundation of this country.” To argue that Christians don’t carry guns, he says, means that “the issue now is the Gospel.” NYT, 6.26.09. And, in the same issue of the NYT, the John Birch Society says its membership has doubled in recent years and the percentage of poll respondents who say that gun owners’ rights are more important than gun control has grown distinctly over twelve months.


Arms production

Global arms production continued to increase in 2007. The combined arms sales of the SIPRI Top 100 arms-producing companies reached $347 billion, an increase of 11 per cent in nominal terms and 5 per cent in real terms over 2006. Since 2002 the value of the Top 100 arms sales has increased by 37 per cent in real terms.

Forty-four US companies accounted for 61 per cent of the Top 100’s arms sales in 2007, while 32 West European companies accounted for 31 per cent of the sales. Russia, Japan, Israel and India accounted for most of the rest.

Thirty companies increased their arms sales by more than 30 per cent. Most fell into one of three groups:

  • providers of armoured vehicles, heavily in demand by the United States and other overseas forces in Afghanistan and Iraq . . .

  • British-owned companies that have greatly expanded their US presence through acquisitions; and

  • companies providing outsourced military services, as well as some military electronics companies.

    . . . the level of concentration in the industry, as measured by the share of the Top 100 arms sales accounted for by the top five companies, has gradually declined since 2002. . .

    Arms companies may face reduced demand in the future if governments cut military spending in response to rising budget deficits. Russian companies have experienced particular cash-flow difficulties and are receiving government aid. . .

    Sam Perlo-Freeman, 2009 Yearbook, Stockholm Peace Research Institute.


Forums

In last month’s forum on Marcus Borg’s interpretation of the current scholarly view of the teachings of the historical Jesus he seems to point towards the Quaker interpretation of the teaching of Jesus, namely, that it is subversive:

of closed boundaries between classes of people,

of hierarchies and inequalities,

of exploitation,

of patriarchal families and female subordination,

of earthly and heavenly rewards and punishments, and

of the Kingdom of God existing only in the future.

He sees Christianity and evangelism as consisting:

of an invitation to a relationship with the spirit of God rather than a dogmatically required belief in the eschatological Jesus of the synoptic gospels,

of boundary-shattering compassion rather than a search for purity,

of a rejection of “uncleanness,” and

of a freedom to seek truth following the spirit of Jesus rather than by the word of the “post-Easter” Bible.

Borg warns that conventional wisdom can subvert and obscure the teachings of “wisdom teachers” such as Jesus.

On June 14, Josefina Castillo, program director for the American Friends Service Committee (AFSC) office in Austin, was our guest and spoke in forum to update us on the current work of her office. In spite of having only two paid staff at this time, active volunteers and interns keep vital economic justice programs going in the Austin area and along the U.S. – Mexico border. The Austin Tan Cerca program continues to send delegations to the border periodically, to learn about corporate-led globalization through face-to-face encounters with maquiladora workers. Friends were especially concerned to hear Josefina’s report on conditions at the Hutto detention center for non-documented immigrant families, and how this facility is part of the private prison industry in Texas.

More on this subject can be found on www.texasprisonbidness.org. AFSC-Austin is one of our supported Quaker organizations.

On July 12 Joe Redfield will be talking about the future of transportation – will it be green? So, think about electric cars, hybrid cars, fuel cell cars. And what about personal jet packs? Teleportation? Joe’s nose is close to the ground.

And on the 26th we shall discuss possible uses for the new building we shall have acquired next to Vandiver. We shall all be able to see it and a plan of the building to give us better ideas. It is large – it will increase threefold the amount of room outside of the meetingroom. How should we use it?


WE WANT YOU!

This is an appeal for San Antonio Friends to offer their handyperson skills to match our current and future building repair needs.

If you have a skill and/or tools, let someone know on the building committee (Bill O, Ken S, Carol B, James G). To put your skills/tools on a list for future use, contact the building committee clerk by email: willoco@yahoo.com

Thank you in advance! Bill O Building Committee Clerk


Penn House

Patricia Newkirk, of this Meeting, who moved to the Pacific Northwest, says:

“My years at William Penn House fed my soul,. They challenged me and allowed me to grow. I will miss many of you terribly. The House is a small gem nested in Quaker circles. It provides a space for Quakers young and old to gather and explore their faith, for Quakers to engage the world in dialogue around the testimonies and an opportunity for those unfamiliar with Quakers to encounter us for a day or two while staying at the House. I am filled with gratitude for my time there and am holding the House and all those who care for its ministry in the Light.”


No kids there

“If Reno was in a bad mood - if he didn't have any money and he wasn't high - he'd say, ‘Man, Sonny, they ain't go no kids in Harlem. I ain't never seen any. I've seen some real small people actin' like kids, but they don't have any kids in Harlem, because nobody has time for a childhood. Man, do you ever remember bein' a kid? Not me. Shit, kids are happy, kids laugh, kids are secure. They ain't scared-a nothin'. You ever been a kid, Sonny? Damn, you lucky. I ain't never been a kid, man. I don't ever remember bein' happy and not scared. I don't know what happened, man, but I think I missed out on that childhood thing, because I don't ever recall bein' a kid.’"

- Claude Brown, Manchild in the Promised Land, quoted by Henry A. Giroux, Truthout. He points out that millions of children now face a similar fate.


Award for Friends Journal

At the Associated Church Press's annual "Best of the Christian Press" awards, Friends Journal took top honors in the Best Theme Issue category for the October 2008 special issue, "Energy, Climate, and Building Community." The judges said:

"A tour de force of the possibilities and problematic dimensions of a simplifying, downsizing society. Articles provide a blend of homegrown and sophisticated discussion on working for change in residence and community, and are both societal, global, and long-range in scope. Poetry adds texture and even torque to the conversations raised in prose features."

Subscribe to Friends Journal today using the special offer code "ENERGY," and it will send you the October 2008 special issue absolutely free.


Hate Groups

The Southern Poverty Law Center has been tracking hate groups for almost 30 years. In its spring 2009 Intelligence Report, they found that 926 hate groups are currently operating in the U.S., an all-time high. These groups include the Ku Klux Klan, neo-Nazis, racist skinheads and Black separatists.

Potok attributes this rise in hate groups to the recession, the election of the nation's first black president, and the immigration debate. "We're looking at a kind of perfect storm of factors that really favor the continued growth of these groups," he says.

Mara Schiavocampo, NBC News


World Refugee Day

This celebration was held at St. Francis Episcopalian Church on Bluemel. There were Hutus and Tutsis from Burundi dancing and singing together, a Mandaean priest from Iraq offering prayers (Mandaeans’ principal prophet is John the Baptist,) Karen and Karenni (different) mountainous minorities from Burma (they don’t recognize Myanmar,) Christians from Iraq, Vietnamese Buddhists, and refugees from Bhutan and Nepal (probably all Hindu or Buddhist ethnic Nepalis from Bhutan, acceptable in neither country.) Darfuris and Ethiopians were represented at their table by a couple of blondes.

The groups prayed, danced, and sang, with many children dancing in the ways children do. It was a sad but wonderful occasion, put on by Catholic Social Services. The groups are all separated by nationality, language, religion, and culture, and united only by their common status as refugees, here.


AGING WITH ONE ANOTHER IN COMMUNITY

We Friends are candidly considering both the issues and the positive potential for remaining in a caring community as we age. On May 10, a forum was held to begin to explore the ways that we can continue to live in a neighborhood that meets our needs as we grow older, while still providing the freedom, companionship, and support that we need as older Friends, as much as we always have in our younger years.

The balance between independence and support become more critical as our physical strength changes and our families may be in other cities or even farther away. We can begin to envision living in a continuing community that nurtures our Quaker values and interests with other like-minded Friends. To be in community close to our meetinghouse would, for some of us, be ideal. It has been suggested that interested Friends might decide to move to a nearby apartment complex, where they could join together as they wish for meals, social times, trips, and new learning opportunities. Those in such a community could gently look after one another when a health issue arises, or a need for other support becomes evident. Such a community must be carefully planned and considered, in order to have all the benefits from such an arrangement without creating new difficulties that could arise from short-sighted lack of planning.

Three Friends attended a recent local conference on “Aging in Place” to gain information on existing and planned public services that encourage and support elders who want to remain in their homes indefinitely. Such services that exist and are being considered for improvement include public transportation, health services, assistance with home maintenance and repairs, and opportunities for companionship.

The Adult Education Committee will continue to gather information on this subject, and to keep the conversation going on how those in our Friends community might create such a lifestyle where, together, we can balance independence and support as we “age in place.”


Business Meeting in June

The clerk opened with the words, “ Be aware of the pervasive presence of the Spirit, the beauty and struggle in life, and the Mystery which soon engulfs the few things we think we've learned.*”

He updated Friends on the negotiations and preparations for purchase of the adjoining Hair Salon building. Funds are being prepared and purchase should be complete within a month. Meeting approved minutes authorizing the Ad Hoc committee to go ahead with necessary repairs and code requirements, handing over the responsibility to another committee when these are complete, until finally the responsibilities for the building can be taken over by the regular committees.

Meeting approved with pleasure M&O’s report recommending acceptance of Andrew McP’s transfer of membership from Liveoak Meeting. The committee hopes that attenders are aware of the possibility of applying for membership, what that entails and how much this is welcomed. Two recent callers asked if there was a Quaker school in the area. One said he wanted to give his granddaughter the same opportunity the Obama daughters were getting.

The committee has considered how the meetinghouse and in future the salon can be used to meet our spiritual needs. There are groups we would like to welcome to use the meetinghouse without incurring the present fees. Recently we had a call from a Narcotics Anonymous group.

The committee has received materials on the 6th Quaker Women’s Conference on Faith and Spirituality. This will be held from November 5-8, 2009 in Oklahoma.

There is continuing concern for Hill Country Friends and their shrinking meeting.

The committee is concerned for the Friends of our meeting who have been facing severe health or other problems in their lives.

From Outreach, the clerk said that our picnic at Guadalupe River State Park was washed out at the last moment. [ By June 25 the river there was completely dry.] Jim S has printed extra photos which have been placed on the board. There are many suggestions for changing Committee responsibilities. These will be raised at the forum on the 28th.

The committee is considering showing the film “The Son,” about forgiveness, in the Fall. Members will place a display shelf with recommended books outside the library window on the first Sunday of each month.

On bookings of rooms, the committee favored special treatment for nonprofit groups which provide a community service – a Meeting service to the community.

The clerk of Building referred to the repairs which are being carried out and asked Friends to volunteer their skills. The committee has agreed to take the responsibility for maintaining kitchen cleaning supplies – this will be taken up in the forum on Outreach responsibilities.

The clerk of Adult Ed summarized the program for August and also the introduction to Quakerism in September, to be held in the morning before meeting.

* Emily Sander (1963) As quoted in Catherine Whitmire's Plain Living: A Quaker Path to Simplicity.


Prayer

Gently
I held the soul of my enemy
cupped in my hands
like a featherless chick
praying he would be warmed
comforted
so he might sing a new song
with a new purpose
for the renewing of his spirit.

I pray now
that all of us
hold our enemies' spirits
cupped in our souls' hands
for the renewal of their souls
warmed with a new purpose
a new song in our hearts.

I pray this.
May it be so.
Amen.

(Mariellen Gilpin , Urbana-Champaign Meeting, on reading David Niyonzama’s experience)


Query for July

Does our Quaker practice, individually and collectively, lead us to develop ways, both practical and spiritual, which strengthen our meeting as a caring and disciplined community for ourselves and for those who seek us out? ^P^P


Last Updated 7/06/09.
Colby Glass